True Love

You Were Not Born to Cling to Another Human Being

You were born to truly know yourself. To experience life as a conscious being in this human form, as an extension of the universe itself.

You didn’t come here to revolve around one specific person. You came to discover your worth, to remember that you are God, the Creator of your own reality. To create your identity from the root… from love.

Because no one will give you the love you didn’t receive. That love—you owe it to yourself. Otherwise, you’ll keep searching for it endlessly in every relationship.

FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF

Have a romance with yourself. The world treats you the way you treat yourself. Let’s love ourselves so deeply that we cannot settle for just any kind of love. Until someone aligned with us comes along… but first, we must become that ideal person for ourselves.

True love is born from the inside out—from abundance, not from lack.

WHAT YOU VIBRATE, YOU ATTRACT

I got married for the first time at 20. I believed that the love I gave could heal his wounds—even his alcoholism. I thought my love would be enough. But the truth was, nothing changed, and I attracted a partner with the same wounds I carried. I repeated family patterns, and in the middle of that relationship, I saw them clearly.

You don’t attract what you want.
You attract what you are.

If you vibrate from wounds, you will attract more of the same. Relationships are magnified mirrors: they reflect our deepest wounds.

LOVE BEGINS WITHIN YOU

Our happiness doesn’t depend on whether we are with someone or not. If we feel sadness because we don’t have a partner, it reveals a lack of self-love. Before finding the love of your life… you must become the love of your life.

Perhaps what you long for in someone else is only the reflection of the love you also deserve to give yourself first.

Anyone can spark a flame. But that doesn’t mean they’re the right one to build a life with.

Ask yourself honestly:

• What kind of partner do I want?
  Athletic, home-loving, adventurous?

• What do I want to experience with that person?
  To be a priority?
  Commitment?
  A deep, intimate love?

Then turn inward.

Do you want to be a priority? Make yourself a priority.
Do you want devotion? Devote yourself to you.
Do you want intimacy? Go deeper within yourself.

Love your body, your sexuality, your story. Don’t deny any part of who you are.

BE WHAT YOU WANT TO ATTRACT

Do you want a partner who is whole, trustworthy, faithful, understanding?

Then be that person with yourself.

Be whole with yourself.
Be trustworthy with yourself.
Be faithful to you.
Be compassionate with your own process.

Only then will you attract from the soul, not from the wound.
True love is not about finding someone to complete you.
It’s about finding someone to walk with you while you are already whole.

Are you searching outside for what your soul is asking you to find within?